5 Reasons Why You Aren’t Attracting Money Into Your Life Or Business

You’ve been on this entrepreneur wave for some time now.

You think you’re doing everything right, but yet you aren’t attracting the money and abundance you feel you deserve. The money just isn’t showing up for you. It’s hard to close those high ticket sales.

You feel like you can’t keep up with the millions of expenses piling up in front of you. You feel like you’re just about ready to call it quits.

I’m here to tell you not to quit. Don’t give up. Odds are there are a few things you aren’t doing that are hindering the flow of money from reaching you. Allow me to share.

5 Reasons Why You Aren’t Attracting Money Into Your Life Or Business

1. Your Financial Habits Are Terrible

Let’s be honest with ourselves here.

You’ve been telling yourself “Once I get those high ticket sales and there’s some steady cash coming in, THEN I’ll get my money habits in order”.

This is so far from the truth. If you don’t have control over the little money that comes to you now, how do you expect to have control over more money?

The key here is TEND TO WHAT YOU HAVE. If you aren’t being responsible with the money you currently have, you can’t expect to attract more money and abundance into your life.

Start making better financial decisions with the money you currently have and you’ll be surprised at what could happen.

Those who use well what they are given, even more will be given.

2. You’re A Complainer

When times are tough it’s easy for us to just complain about our situations. This is especially true when it comes to money. Here’s a secret.

Complaining about your money situation almost never makes it better. In fact, it only makes it easier for money to run away from you and never look back.

Imagine if money was a person. All money ever heard from you was complaints. Do you really think it would want to stick around? Absolutely not.

The key here is GRATITUDE. Be grateful for the money that comes to you. Be grateful for the money situations that arise, even when it’s hard.

If you can’t be grateful for whatever money that comes for way, you can’t expect to attract more. Money loves a grateful heart.

Remember there’s a reason for everything.

There are always lessons to be learned in every situation that arises, money situations included. It’s important to be grateful for all of it.

3. You’re Stingy

FACT: The world of the generous gets larger and larger, while the world of the stingy gets smaller and smaller.

Being selfish and stingy is the best way to show money that you don’t really want it. Along with a grateful heart, money loves a generous heart.

This doesn’t even have to be with just money.

  • What value are you providing to others?
  • Are you being generous with your time and gifts?
  • Are you being generous with money?

If you have it, you need to be. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve given money and money just comes back to me. I’m never in a state of lack. It’s a beautiful thing. I’d encourage you to try it and see how things change for you.

4. You Don’t Believe In Yourself

On the outside, you’re filled with all the confidence in the world, but deep down you don’t believe in the value you can provide.

When you are speaking to a potential client, they can read your energy. They can sense if you are confident or insecure. They can tell whether or not you believe in what you are trying to sell.

If you are in a state where you don’t really believe in your offering, no one else will either. If you don’t believe in the value you can provide, no one else will.

Attracting money from a sale starts with you and your state of mind. Get your mind right and the rest will follow.

5. You Have A Scarcity Mindset

A scarcity mindset is where your actions and thoughts all come from a place of lack. This is especially common in regards to money. You find yourself always worrying about money because you believe there really isn’t enough money out there to sustain you.

This keeps people stuck in negative revolving patterns when it comes to money. You have to get to a state of mind where you believe there is enough money in the world and it is at your disposal. It’s all about how you’re going to attract that money to you.

Your thoughts tailor everything about you. If you’re going through life constantly feeling like you’ll always be struggling financially or you’ll never have enough, then that’s exactly how it will be.

Switch your mindset to a place of abundance and security. Money cannot come where it is not welcomed. An abundance mindset welcomes money, while a scarcity mindset repels it.


I promise you, God did not create us on this earth to struggle financially. He wants us to thrive and prosper, but we have to really want that for ourselves.

If we want that life of financial freedom, we have to be willing to put in the work behind what that life entails. And most of that work is inner work. It’s more about mindset and attitude re-evaluation than it is about the physical and technical pieces.

Those technical pieces come after the inner work is completed. Change your mindset and truly change your life into one that attracts the money and abundance you have always dreamed.

Aleise Kay


Aleise is a money coach for female entrepreneurs and boss spirited women. She focuses not only on the financial and technical pieces to a successful financial future but focuses heavily on the importance of self-development and a healthy mindset to sustain and attract that life of financial freedom.